My dog is having his anal glands removed tomorrow, any advice for his aftercare? Tomorrow, 22/02/08, my dog (labrador) is going to have his anal glands removed. Whilst I've researched lots on the actual operation, i would like some info/feedback on what i can expect afterwards, such as healing times, things to avoid, tips etc. Thanks:) |
My friend's dog had this done, and post-op was hell! It will take a while for his muscle control to come back, meaning he will have many, many accidents. Past that, make sure he can't get to the area to lick the stitches.
And, be patient with him! |
Advice on anal sex? How do stop or prevent it from hurting? I tried anal sex once and it was very painful. I screamed in inmense pain and cudn't bear it. I would like to try it again but i'm scared it will hurt like before. Any advice on how to stop or prevent it from hurting and to make it enjoyable experience instead of a painful one. |
| Some people like it, most people hate it. The only way to reduce pain is to use LOTS of lube. Without lubrication, it will be extremely painful. But even with lube, it will hurt like hell if you just ram it in. You need to do it EXTREMELY slowly and with lots of lube. But if you dont like it the second time you try it, you honestly might want to abandon the anal completely. |
My bf wants to try anal, I need advice? My bf wants to do anal but I've never done that before. I want to try it but I'm nervous about trying it. Does it hurt? How does it feel? I need some advice! |
| do not do it dont have anal sex trust me if you do it you wont like it and even if you do like it in time from doing it it will make your bowl movements difficult and painful and eventially anal sex will tear up your butt muscles and make you unable to control your bowl movements which in time will result you into wearing adult diapers becuase you will have uncontrolible leaks from your buttox my friend had this experience and she regreted it her whole life |
Females only! How do I get rid of unwanted anal hair? Safe advice only? I shave and do not want to shave there! Any advice girls, no guy comments please! |
| Get your husband to shave it off. He has to be very careful and you have to hold your cheeks.... |
I had Accidental anal sex need advice? So what happened was I was going to be on top and I was going to slide my boyfriend as ahem... You know what happens im sure. Anyway there was a little bit of a miscalcualtion and it went in my bum I don't acctualy think he noticed but it felt really nice and so I just kept going with it and now I want to do it again? But wil he be angry at me for not telling him we had anal? Would he do it again? Need advice! |
| For a guy, sex is sex. I'm sure he won't care where he gets to put it, as long as he gets to put it somewhere. Next time, ask him if you can do it again. I'm sure he won't mind :) |
Can anyone give me any advice as to how I would be able to safely release my wife's blocked anal glands? I have heard that it is a process which may be undertaken without having to seek medical attention. Is this correct, or should I be consulting a specialist? |
| Unless your wife is a dog or cat she does not have anal glands. |
Advice needed for first time anal play? I haven't experienced anything in regards to anal (penis, toy or finger) before but I am curious about it.
I'm not looking for anything too involved at the moment but more along the lines of using a finger.
Is there a position that is best? Is there a technique to doing that?
Am I just overthinking the whole thing? |
No, no, no....you are NOT over thinking. This is something that has to be done correctly. It's not like vanilla sex. You need to go very slow with lots of lube, and you'll do fine with a finger. Try rubbing on the outside for a while before you go in. That will help you to relax.
If you decide to go to something larger, you'll need lots of very slow stretching beforehand with fingers or a toy, and lots of lube. You can't have too much lube...it is your friend. A vibrating toy might help you to relax and is probably the best way to get yourself ready for the real thing.
If you do take the plunge and go all the way, make him go slooooooow. Patience is key. It's not like doing it the other way...it requires skill and patience. It may hurt a bit at first no matter what you do, but do it wrong and the pain will be a sure thing. No one wants that.
Good luck. |
Anal question - advice from those who know? Please, if your response is going to be how disgusting anal sex is, don't waste your time answering. We've all heard the opinion and don't need it posted here.
Anywho...my bf and I have tried anal, and depending on the situation, I have both liked it and hated it. He loves it, which I'm fine with, but I'd like to get some advice. If we start off with it, it hurts way too bad. If we've been going at it for a while, I'm relaxed and it feels fine. But that takes quite a while.
My question is what I can do to relax myself. What positions or techniques would make it easier? more pleasureable? We have great sex and I'm open to anything, so this is something I'd like to get advice for regarding technique. If I'm not sure, or say it's painful, he stops...doesn't want to hurt me. He'd rather try and wait than to destroy it altogether.
Please share your techniques, experiences, or even links that would help out. Btw: I know about the plenty of lube thing, believe me! |
Would your boyfriend be adverse to performing analingus? I love having my guy slip his tongue into my backside while he's going down on me! Otherwise, I can only second what others have mentioned - don't rush into it, enjoy lots of foreplay, use fingers and lube before the main event. I'm glad to hear that your bf stops right away when you express discomfort.
Have fun finding out what works best for you! |
Need advice on how to seriously reduce the PAIN with anal sex? Me and my gf have been together for a couple years now.And weve tried anal sex a few times.But it hurts her so so badly. We both have been trying ways to do it with out it hurtsing her.Ive heard of anal ease or something like that but i know nothing about it or were to get it.I think shes not reaxed enuff or something i dont know.Any tips on how to make the pain go away except for not doing it? |
| You need to manually relax her anus. Gently stretch her out one finger at a time. Then lie on your back and let her lower herself onto you. That way she is in control And as always the by word is Lube Lube and MORE lube! |
Sex- ed [anal] any advice? Okay well me and my boyfriend have been trying to have anal intercourse
Were both safe we have no diseases
And weve been trying to have anal sex for a while but it just hurts too much
[we use lubricant too]
I mean i noe its supposed to but they say that after a while you just get used to it and you dont feel any more pain
Well ive been trying for a while and the pain is still there
Any advice to help the pain stop
Or make it any easier?? |
Yeah, that's a tough nut to crack... I tried to ride that Hershey Highway for the longest time with girls I was with but I'm a little bigger than average and it just simply wouldn't fit... not without them screaming at me "OW! Stop! Stop!"
A good thing to do is to get yourself something to stick up there, like a dildo or something thick to loosen your anus a little first. Then try to get it in. |